I was putting Brecklen to bed a few days ago and we got into a conversation about the baby. He wanted to know the specifics of how the baby actually gets around in my tummy. I told him it's like a balloon filled with water. He seemed to like the visual image and started laughing. He got a big smile on his face as he was trying to put all the pieces together. He asked if the baby floats around and bounces off the walls. Pretty much. So when he got that part figured out, then his next question was.....
Brecklen: Mom, how is the baby going to come out of your tummy?
Me: (Panic) They just take it out. (I point to my huge stomach, trying to figure out what I'm going to say next)
Breck: (gives me a questioned look because I didn't answer him)
Me: Well, they make an incision on mommy's tummy and take it out.
(He seemed happy with that. And I was so glad, because I really didn't want to tell him how it will really happen, and technically babies are born that way).
Breck: Will it hurt?
Me: No, not really. (Yes, lots!!!)
Breck: Will they put a big band-aid on it? (He was starting to get a little emotional).
Me: Yes, a big one (I wish that was all it took).
I was surprised that he was getting worried about all of this. He thought he was going to be there and would see me in pain during delivery. I told him he wasn't going to be there, he would be with his friends. He seemed relieved at that.
Me: Do you have any names you like?
Breck: Yes, Wonder Girl. But I'm not sure if I like it or not.
(of course our family would not be complete without another superhero).
We discussed some more names. Although didn't come up with one.
Breck: I know how I came here.
Me: How's that?
Breck: I fell from Heaven through two clouds. (Couldn't have said it better myself).
Me: (Chuckling because that is so clever and very specific) TWO clouds? Yup. That's right.
Breck: He rubs his nose on my tummy, and kisses it. (He likes to do this alot, it's so cute).
I am so impressed that we got through this whole conversation about babies, and it went great. I am so glad we skipped over the birds and the bees stuff. I think his explanation was so much better any how. He ceases to amaze me with his creativity and imagination. It was actually a really fun conversation because I could just see his mind processing all this information and he was just ecstatic to learn it all.
3 comments:
Joy, it's fun to have a new post to read! However, it's just not the same having the famous raccoon to look at! I can't wait for your little lady to make her appearance.
Joy,
That is a sweet story. I love the things kids say and their imaginations. I am dreading the actual birds and bees explanations. Hopefully not anytime soon!
Joy, you're so cute with your kids. I could see this whole adorable scenario in my head. So cute.
I hope you guys are doing well! Thanks again for the ride to the rental car place. Sorry I was in such a flustered panic with Jeff's keys. I was trying to calculate Plan B and staying calm at the same time but failing miserably. Luckily, Jeff found the wallet before the car company closed so he was added as a driver. He's actually driving back to Minnesota right now.
Have a great time in Colorado, and we'll see you in three weeks!
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